Episode 260: Trusting Relationships = A Generational Legacy of Benefits

Guest Mentor Tim Gilk is a clear example of how you can reap generational benefits by forming solid relationships built on trust, hard work, and open communication. Living your core values takes vigilance. We can get off track and mess up under pressure and in extremely stressful decision-making situations. Instead of collapsing into perfectionism and self-criticism, be more forgiving and allow yourself a pathway back to re-engage with your core values.

You will hear how Tim upholds his core values and builds a generational legacy in all of his relationships, from family, friends, colleagues, employees, customers, to vendors, community, and extended family. This is an uplifting conversation about how you can work on yourself and have meaningful relationships when you adhere to your core values and see them as your guiding light.

The foundation of implicit trust started for Tim with self-understanding. Marrying Jennifer gave Tim confidence in the benefits of being engaged and present to each other’s needs. Their values of trust, hard work, and open communication became the heart of how they raised their three-adult and well-adjusted children. DOWNLOAD

 What is unique about Jennifer and Tim is they are both entrepreneurs. How they support each other in achieving their dreams is inspirational. Not a comfortable lifestyle but certainly a fulfilling one for them. Tim owns Wood & Conn Corporation, a wholesale distributor of grain handling and grain storage products. They sell, service, and deliver to dealers all over Minnesota and the Dakotas. He also uses his private plane to get those needing medical treatment to their appointments through Angel Flight Central. A service worth knowing about.

 Jennifer is the founder and owner of Gilk Legacy Law; Her firm does the work of protecting farm legacies for the future. They provide estate and property planning services to farmers and others in their surrounding community. As she helps others preserve their legacies, she and Tim are creating quite a legacy of their own. Impressive.

We also discuss how Tim and his company adapted to the coronavirus pandemic requirements of 2020 and 2021 and how he maintains his calm demeanor as empty-nesters.

  • Protecting employees and customers.
  • Responding to delivery delays, sales, marketing adjustments, changes in trucking protocols, invoice debacles, and other work process mishaps not experienced before.
  • How farmers have been affected and how they are adapting.
  • Maintaining a marriage while running two separate businesses.
  • Reading as a stress reliever. We briefly discuss three authors and their latest books.
    • Two of Bob Woodward’s books – The Legacy of All The President’s Men (includes Alexander Butterfield’s role) and Rage.
    • Barack Obama’s new book, A Promised Land
    • Jim Collin’s new book – Beyond Entrepreneurship 2.0: Turning Your Business into an Enduring Great Company.

The most significant benefit I see in Jennifer and Tim’s legacy so far is the stable foundation they have created to support each of them in their lifework. Equality. You can do more in life when you have the support and adhere to core values. Core values are the glue that holds everything together. Let me know what you think after listening. 

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Conscious Attentive Leadership Mentoring

After listening, do the following three C.A.L.M. Activities:

  1. Take these two risks: a. Develop an unshakeable core of resiliency. If you haven’t sign-up for January 21st, from 8:30 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. WeMentor Meaningful Conversations LAB. Click HERE!   b. Identify your two core values. Ask others closest to you what they think your core values are; it can prompt a meaningful discussion. Then ask what their two core values are, and both of you discuss how you get back on track when you mess up.
  2. Apply Self-Compassion: Acknowledge your core values by posting them close to you to see them throughout each day. It is one way to build trust and stay focused on what is important to you.
  3. Welcome Appreciation: I appreciate both conversations with Tim. The more I learn about Tim and his wife, Jennifer, the more I admire them. From that admiration, I find inner strength and feel hopeful. I find more ways to appreciate myself. Thank you for the gifts of sharing yourselves with Matthew and me. I appreciate learning the generational legacy one can leave by living your core values. Your Turn. What do you appreciate in this conversation?

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Podcast Guest Mentor

 Tim Gilk is the owner and president of Wood & Conn Corporation at Redwood Falls, MN.  His company is a wholesale distributor of grain handling and grain storage products. They sell, service, and deliver to dealers all over Minnesota and the Dakotas.  Tim began working at Wood & Conn in 1997 and entered ownership in 2006. Wood & Conn serves these farm communities with a staff of 8 to 12 people, depending on the season.

 Tim’s personal life is complete but always expanding.  He has been happily married to Jennifer Gilk for 29 years, has three adult children (of whom he is immensely proud), and has lived in the same house since 1998.  In no particular order, his interests are golf, pheasant hunting, deer hunting, canoe wilderness camping, cold beer, card games, travel, aviation, patio parties, reading (non-fiction), singing, and trombone.

His philanthropic side includes: piloting for Angel Flight Central, donating blood, youth leader, and three tours of duty as a Sunday School teacher.

Episode 260: Trusting Relationships = A Generational Legacy of Benefits

Nancy A. Meyer, M.A.
Author: Nancy A. Meyer, M.A.

Nancy A. Meyer, M.A., is a seasoned entrepreneurial leader, business and life mentor/coach/teacher, podcaster, author, and certified mindfulness yoga and meditation integrator (she integrates those skill sets into everything). Nancy’s compassionate and collaborative approach reinforces resilience while maintaining accountable conversations supporting how you redefine your lead while redesigning your business. Nancy calls this “Dual Innovation Leadership.”   Nancy founded WeMentor, inc. in 1992 to change the leadership in our country by providing emerging and existing business owners with mentoring in Dual Innovation Leadership. She has mentored thousands and is eager to work with you! Assert self-leadership and get started today! Clients say, “Nancy is a compelling, engaging, and ‘decipher the trees from the forest’ kind of mentor, speaker, and leader. A dedicated entrepreneurial leader and mentor who role models what she preaches. Her style and candor enrich the content she delivers and the results clients experience.” Nancy accepts people where they are while inspiring them to breakthrough into new dimensions:  As an Entrepreneurial Leader (Innovator),  As a Competent Business Owner (Practitioner)  As a Mentor (Role Model)  As a Spiritual Being and Self-Leadership Master! Start by subscribing to WeMentor Mondays with Nancy PODCAST. Join your peers and...

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