Episode 279: Practicing Integrity with Money

I have a thank you gift for you. A way to practice integrity with money. The WeMentor Money LAB Template pdf can be downloaded and used as a guide to facilitate weekly personal and business money conversations.

This template has been a work in progress over decades of use personally and with clients. I have recently updated it. I became interested in how money works upon founding WeMentor in 1992. Every client needed a business plan and didn’t know how to write one, so I began writing a business planning and entrepreneurial leadership curriculum to use in WeMentor LABs and have never stopped.

Financially projecting your future is both mathematics and disciplined art. Yes, 2 + 2 = 4, but so is 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 and 3 + 1. There is more than one way to work an equation that equals four. Working out different scenarios expands our thinking about income-generating activities. Money meetings are a way to look at the numbers from more than one viewpoint. More than one belief system. Even co-creating a belief system that aligns with our vision and values opening us up to noticing that money can come from lots of different places. Instead of having back-n-forth arguments fueled by unmet needs and inadequacies or insufficient sales to cover expenses, the focus is on what you can co-create, cash flow accountability, and ways to create a better world.

Money Meeting Benefits

Money meetings add a layer of vocabulary and focus as nuances are tracked. They help us become aware of limitations and identify where guidelines are needed, so we know our bottoms as well as the possibilities that advance our abilities to influence change. 

Constructive regular money meetings honor our dignity and help us clarify our intentions. Weekly money meetings strengthen our connections with those we make financial decisions. Regularly talking about money is a way to consciously unmask ourselves and learn how to make money and achieve great things together.

Weekly money meetings create a space for us to talk about the inner workings of what we generate and our motivations behind them. Talking about when a betrayal happens, our needs, and our deepest desires is an effective way of expressing ourselves and encapsulating a new future, especially in a setting designed for honest conversations, accountability, and healing our financial wounds.

In this solo-episode, I go over how to use the WeMentor Money LAB Template. I suggest downloading the template and then listening. Play, experiment, express, and learn. DOWNLOAD

WeMentor Money LAB Template

Memorial Day. We took a family vacation to Boston last week. Taking a Water Taxi to our hotel, we were met with another industry profoundly affected by this COVID pandemic, water transportation. We were the only ones aboard. 

Masks were mandatory in every inside space, like the red, green, and blue subway lines. Matthew, Olivia, and I walked seven to ten miles each day as we explored the many sites: 16 principal sites on the Freedom Trail, the Black Heritage Trail on Beacon Hill, the many universities like Harvard, MIT, Tufts, and Northeastern to exploring thrift shops, the Institute of Fine Arts, over 12 plant-based restaurants around the city, and much more.

We were met with a ray of sunshine as we sat down for breakfast at Bonjour Café. Owner and manager, Driss Elmokri, expressed how he opened  his doors last January to packed breakfast and lunch crowds. By March of 2020, as COVID spread and our economy shut down, Driss told his wife he needed to go to the restaurant every day, just in case someone needed food. He began transitioning to a takeout menu.

A local medical doctor stopped by one day asking if Driss could fill some orders for the Massachusetts General Hospital staff. One-hundred orders flowed in, and a steady stream of patrons kept coming. Driss said he hasn’t yet fully recovered but is hopeful he will. He made it through last year. Anything is possible. His café was packed when we visited for breakfast one day and lunch another day.

 

Boston sets up flags for the fallen called Patriot Week with a commencement ceremony on Memorial Day. The picture reflects the flags as we read through Boston’s thick five-foot glass monument of U.S. military service people who died on duty between 2001 and 2020. May all those who have passed before us Rest in Power. Thank you for making the greatest sacrifice for our country.

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Episode Resources

Conscious Attentive Leadership Mentoring

After listening, do the following three C.A.L.M. Activities:

  1. Take this risk or do this adventurous task: Download the WeMentor Money LAB Template. Read through it and then listen to this 15-minute solo-episode. Decide who you would like to invite into this weekly money meeting journey with a two-fold focus. One meeting to discuss your personal finances and the other money meeting to discuss your business. You can select a different person(s) for each money meeting type. Think about a six-week commitment initially.

  2. Apply Self-Compassion: After you have downloaded the pdf and completed the challenge above, observe your body. What sensations do you feel? With open hands, gently rub each arm. Squeeze in for a gentle self-hug. Tell yourself you did well with this adventurous task. Thank yourself.

  3. Welcome Appreciation: “I appreciate my thoughts of you that surfaced as I updated the WeMentor Money LAB Template. I appreciate how happy I feel when I think of you printing the pdf file, reviewing it, and setting up your first weekly money meeting. I appreciate the commitment it takes to be present and accountable in following through with all your goals and aspirations. I welcome all good things into my life and wish you all good things. Gratitude engulfs me as I write. Thank you for listening and being part of our expanding WeMentor Community.”

     Your Turn. Start with I appreciate…

Most of the problems in our lives and world are caused by relational dysfunction, a dysfunction in how we relate: as social groups, as individuals, to animals and the environment, and even to ourselves. Therefore, developing relational literacy—the understanding of and ability to practice healthy ways of relating—is essential for personal, social, and ecological transformation.” —Melanie Joy, psychologist, author, theorist, educator

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Episode 279: Practicing Integrity with Money

Nancy A. Meyer, M.A.
Author: Nancy A. Meyer, M.A.

Nancy A. Meyer, M.A., is a seasoned entrepreneurial leader, business and life mentor/coach/teacher, podcaster, author, and certified mindfulness yoga and meditation integrator (she integrates those skill sets into everything). Nancy’s compassionate and collaborative approach reinforces resilience while maintaining accountable conversations supporting how you redefine your lead while redesigning your business. Nancy calls this “Dual Innovation Leadership.”   Nancy founded WeMentor, inc. in 1992 to change the leadership in our country by providing emerging and existing business owners with mentoring in Dual Innovation Leadership. She has mentored thousands and is eager to work with you! Assert self-leadership and get started today! Clients say, “Nancy is a compelling, engaging, and ‘decipher the trees from the forest’ kind of mentor, speaker, and leader. A dedicated entrepreneurial leader and mentor who role models what she preaches. Her style and candor enrich the content she delivers and the results clients experience.” Nancy accepts people where they are while inspiring them to breakthrough into new dimensions:  As an Entrepreneurial Leader (Innovator),  As a Competent Business Owner (Practitioner)  As a Mentor (Role Model)  As a Spiritual Being and Self-Leadership Master! Start by subscribing to WeMentor Mondays with Nancy PODCAST. Join your peers and...

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